Our “C” word for November is CARE. In the CYITML definition, someone who exhibits CARE: Puts others first; evaluates everyone honestly; understands everyone’s impact. This past summer, one of our final “C” You At The “K” groups was from Kansas RBI. Specifically, it was the team on which “Dash” Vaughn, a 17-year-old who was killed in a drive-by shooting in early August, played. As I talked to the group about the speakers they were about to hear – Darol Rodrock and Dayton Moore – and we talked for a few minutes about “Dash,” I couldn’t help but think about – and mention to them – the name Scott Shannon. There haven’t been many days in the past 26 years when I haven’t thought about Scotty. Granted, you’re likely in the 98 percent of people reading this who’ve never heard of Scott Shannon. But he embodied CARE. Here’s a bit of his story in a column I’ve written and edited many times around November 5.
Mentioning the name Scott Shannon to the group of soon-to-be high school juniors and seniors from the Kansas RBI program gave me the opportunity to share the “Cliff’s Notes” version about one of big influences on my life today. I wish I could’ve shared the whole story.
Most people don’t know the name Scott Shannon, but it’s one I think about nearly every day.
From 1987-1991, Shannon was a hard-throwing right-hander for legendary college baseball coach Ken Dugan and the Lipscomb University Bisons in Nashville, Tenn.
(And, yes, that’s Bisons with an “s.” The one at the end, not in the middle. Hey, that’s how they did it in the South in the mid-late 1800s. They did a lot of things wrong in the South in the mid-late 1800s.)
Shannon, 6-foot-4 and about 180 pounds (even though he was listed at 195), had a gift for a right arm. Part of that gift was the ability to throw in the 90s. Another part was the ability to throw just as hard in the late innings of a game as he did in the first two. During his career, Shannon compiled a career 27-9 record and a 3.87 earned run average for the Bisons. As a junior, he walked only eight batters in 70 innings. During his senior season of 1991, Shannon helped lead the Bisons to the NAIA District 24 baseball championship and a berth in the Area 5 tournament.
That season, the NAIA All-American Shannon had a 10-1 record with a 2.85 ERA, and was the NAIA Player of the Week at the end of March. Several major-league scouts talked to him, but he wasn’t drafted.
Really, in terms of overall athletic ability, he was fantastic. He may have been the best athlete, or at least the best conditioned, at Lipscomb. (And, keep in mind this was Lipscomb at a time when the men’s basketball teams were setting records for points and wins.)
Stories about Shannon around campus were near legendary, or at least that’s how my aging mind remembers. He ran five or six miles a day. On several occasions, he even ate an entire pizza late at night and then ran five miles a few minutes later, clocking a pretty good time.
When he wasn’t pitching, Shannon was involved with the Bison Radio Network. We were broadcast partners for nearly three years. In all, I’d guess we called more than 250 basketball and baseball games together in those three years. His baseball teammates likely would say that he fit the CYITML definition of CARE. He definitely did as a broadcasting partner.
That’s the way he was. Shannon had an uncanny ability to make friends with a wide range of people. He touched hundreds of lives. There are plenty of people with great Scott Shannon stories, I’m sure. As a close friend, in early 1991, he was the instigator in me getting up the guts to introduce myself to the pretty girl who’d eventually become my wife.
A few months later, during the summer after his senior season, Scotty seemed to be wearing himself thin. He was working two jobs and preparing hard for a couple major-league tryouts. As August approached, he started complaining about being tired. We joked about how he was becoming an “old man.” (You can do that when you’re three months younger.)
But as an athlete you know your body. You know the aches, pains and normal fatigue and recovery. Even as a young, invincible athlete, you know when something just isn’t right. In early September, Labor Day weekend to be exact, Scotty reached that point. Something just wasn’t right, so he went to see a doctor at a Nashville hospital. The doctor suggested that he go, almost immediately, to nearby Vanderbilt University Medical Center.
It was cancer. Damn cancer!
The American Cancer Society estimates that nearly 1.7 million Americans will face cancer this year. And approximately 600,000 people will die from some type of the disease this year. Additionally, look at the person next to you. At status quo, according to the ACS, either you or that person will get cancer during your lifetime.
This week, undoubtedly, I’d be calling or texting Scotty to give him a hard time about inching closer to 50. But I won’t make that call or send that text.
You see, two months after being admitted to the Vanderbilt hospital, and having not left it since the Sunday night before Labor Day, Scotty lost his fight with a rare form of cancer and all of the drugs used to fight it. It was Nov. 5, 1991. He was six days shy of his 22nd birthday.
Call it morbid. Call it sentimental. Call it whatever. I don’t care. But not more than a day has gone by in the past 26 years that I have not thought at least once about Scotty. Although it’s usually a quick, funny story, many of those thoughts center on the unanswerable: “Why?”
Why would God allow this to happen? How could someone my age — and in incredible shape — get cancer and die so quickly?
I haven’t learned the answer to either of those questions. I don’t suspect we ever will.
A lesson I’ve learned through the years, though, is that friends come and go. There are some that we wish would go sooner, but they don’t. Then there are those who come into our lives and we’re forever grateful. Regardless of how long we’re around them.
My youngest son, who happened to be born on Nov. 9, 2004, takes one of his names from Scotty. Scott’s family has told me that they know of other little boys running around with the name Scott because of Shannon’s influence.
There’s a great line toward the beginning of Rocky III: “Friends don’t owe. They do because they wanna do.” (OK, maybe “great” is a stretch.)
For the most part, that line is correct. If we’re lucky enough, we’re touched by at least one friend that we do owe.
For me, Scott Shannon is — and always will be — one of those friends.